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Some moments are filled with joy, while others are filled with sadness. As human beings, we are constantly evolving, and our experiences shape us into the people we are today.

However, there are times when life throws us unexpected curveballs, and we are forced to face challenges and losses that we never anticipated. It is during these trying times that we need to remember the words of the famous quote, “Life is a circle of happiness, sadness, hard times, and good times.”

This quote reminds us that life is not a straight line, but rather, it is a series of ups and downs, and we must learn to navigate through each phase.

For me, this quote has become even more meaningful in recent weeks as I lost my mother while also transitioning out of my role as a CEO.

These two significant events in my life have forced me to reflect on the concept of the circles of life and how to cope with the various stages that come our way.

Through this experience, I have learned three key coping mechanisms that have helped me to find hope and move forward with a grateful, joyful, and victorious mindset.

  1. Have Faith

During difficult times, it can be challenging to have faith and remain optimistic. However, having faith in a higher power or a greater purpose can bring a sense of peace and comfort. It allows us to trust that there is a reason for everything, even when we cannot see it in the moment. Faith reminds us that there is always light at the end of the tunnel and gives us the strength to keep going, even when the road ahead may seem dark and uncertain.

  1. Manage Expectations

It is human nature to have expectations, and sometimes we can set high ones for ourselves and others. However, during tough times, it is essential to manage our expectations and focus on the present moment rather than what we thought the future would hold. Allowing ourselves to let go of unrealistic expectations frees us from disappointment and allows us to be present and appreciate what we have in the moment. Managing expectations also means understanding that life is not always perfect, and that is okay. With this mindset, we can find joy in the imperfections and be grateful for what we have. 

  1. Live in the Moment

In today’s fast-paced world, it is easy to get caught up in the rush and miss out on the present moment.

However, during times of difficulty, it is crucial to slow down and be present.

Live in the moment and appreciate the little things, whether it be a beautiful sunset, a warm cup of tea or a hug from a loved one.

These small moments can bring a sense of peace and joy amidst the chaos.

Embracing the present also allows us to focus on what we have and find gratitude in even the toughest of times.

In conclusion, life is a journey with its own set of twists and turns. As the quote goes, “Life is a circle of happiness, sadness, hard times, and good times.” But through faith, managing expectations, and living in the moment, we can find hope and move forward with a grateful, joyful, and victorious attitude.

The circles of life may bring challenges, but they also provide us with opportunities for growth and learning.

So let us embrace each stage, knowing that it is all a part of the beautiful and unpredictable journey of life.

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